It suddenly occurred to me today, that I have been experiencing something that I have not experienced since about 1985 when I was somewhat jealous of Rosie Lee having an Acorn Computer in her bedroom. I was 5 at the time, her father was a doctor and her mother had obviously come from a well to do background and so it made sense that she could experience certain luxuries, although I don’t remember going into so much of a thought process back then.
I came to realise pretty early on in life to be grateful for what you have. I put that down to having a good moral upbringing. I can’t remember other examples of jealously rearing its ugly head until this last month. What was it that had suddenly sparked this old dormant emotion inside me?
Now I am sure I am not alone in this feeling, although some people may not want to admit it quite as openly as I about to. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I am not afraid to tell my story if it helps others overcome their less then welcomes traits.
Since discovering my true passion and following it with all my heart and soul, I have found myself getting quite frustrated whenever I meet, hear, stumble across some one who is doing what I want to do in business… How very dare they lol…who on earth do they think they are?…I do make myself laugh sometimes.
I put my jealously down to the passion, to the eagerness to please, to the relentless need to reach my dreams, to the strong knowing and confidence I have inside me. Knowing now that I am capable of great things. I really hope my friends know me well enough now to know that I am not just blowing my own trumpet, I am merely more comfortable in my own skin. Believe me; it has taken me 30 years to feel this way and I am not going to become ashamed of having this confidence now, I am not perfect by any stretch but I am confident enough in my ability to succeed and to help others also succeed.
I wanted to grab hold of my jealously and put all the energy that I was giving to this feeling to good use. So this is what I have come up with. I hope if you are experiencing jealousy and frustration in your business it is for the same reason as me, that you have so much to give and you are just overly eager to reach your ultimate goal.
Jealously born out of hate, spite and an expecting everything for nothing mentality is not what I am referring to. If you are Jealous of others but you are not really doing anything to personally development yourself through, education, knowledge, skills and self improvement then you really don’t deserve to be jealous at all. (tough love from Beth, hmm)
So this is my strategy. When doubt takes over and you don’t think you are good enough or that you will never have what the other person does, remember this:
Hope that is food for thought, or at least food to tame your green eyed monster, and if there is even the slightest chance that you are jealous of me lol…let me know. It might be that we have so much in common, that we are likeminded and we were supposed to work together?
Yours in Success,
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